2 Things to win over to be successful

1,Obsession with Sex: Yes. The moment puberty hits, it is like a floodgate that has been opened. 20 year olds being obsessed about masturbation and sorn. They get addicted, they panic, they want to stop but they don’t know how to do that.

It is not my place to ask you to stop. Because I don’t take decisions for you. No one should. Sex is natural & fun but it helps us relieve our extra pent up energies. But if you are too much obsessed with it, either you have too much free time or you are eating too much.

And overcoming this sex obsession is not an uphill task really. People struggle when they try to repress it. And they fail miserably. Neither too much indulgence nor too much abeyance will help. Rather, thought equilibrium is needed.

Paaji ! Control :)

Three things can benefit tremendously: Meditation, Fitness & a good portfolio of Goals. Lazy people mess up more. If inspite of your best efforts you are not able to derive maximum value out of your 10pm to 2am routine- please sleep between 10-11pm. Wake up at 5am. Those early hours of the morning will get you a notorious confidence about life. A confidence which will get you those extra very productive early hours at a time when the majority world is sleeping. And I am sure — you would not want to have SEXY thoughts at 5am. Even Shri Imran Haashmi & Sri Sri Prem Chopra sleep at that time.

20s are a high energy period. These are the years when possibly you are most sexually driven (& hence more need to channelize it). Do not be desperate. Channelize your energy and see the wonders it does to you. You may want to read more at ‘Vicky Loner’.

2.The chase of Love:- I always wonder how an obsession with sex will ever help people in their pursuit for love.

The biggest impact on the sociology of a mediumly emotionally competent nation as ours has been Bollywood — for decades now. It silently mutates our thought patterns & has been promoting surreal & dreamy lives since many decades now. The producers of the movies- it seems have cracked the code recently. They know that the largest India is living under the age 30. What we are proving to the FB generation is that ‘Mind should get what it wants- even if it is non-logical’. We are showing them easy MAGIC in place of LOGIC. A ‘Flirty look’ is almost permanent on the faces of the young people.

Pls Pls Pls love me baby !! Pls

Love is awesome. Love is good. It is one of the most important things – even in a stellar movie like interstellar. But ‘Love is a full time job especially between 20s & 30s’. I’m sure it is very romantic when someone you just met (or haven’t met) flirts with you like you have known each other for years. But what after that? Flirting is dangerous as it begins on the base of lust and 9.9 times out of 10 — it will definitely lead to any of Love, complications, mischief, heartbreaks and even complete disarray of the present normal self. Really? Are people that stupid these days to believe that a person loves you without knowing you or they are that stupid to actually fall for someone without knowing them?

It is OK if your friend has a love-sex life and you do not have. You could have a GOAL today and tomorrow thousands may love to chase you because of your ‘Awesomeness’. It doesn’t have to be like a hindi movie always. What I’m trying to say is — if you have it, great! Don’t center your life on it. If you don’t have it, don’t crib. Create a good life for yourself & it will come along!

Some people spend their entire 20s in traffic jams of relationships. They just keep on falling in love with the next available item. Love is a beautifully expensive gift. No point giving it to someone who is cheap. Stop mentally finding & waiting for the right person & just become the right person yourself. & then the right person will automatically come.